Sex with a new guy

You are dating a new guy, and the make out session have been so hot, you’ve practically dry humped holes into each other’s jeans. With all that chemistry, the sex has to be off the hook from the start, right? Yeah
“Getting intimacy with a new person can be clumsy,” says Chris Fariello, PhD, director of the institute of sex Therapy, in Philadelphia. You aren’t completely comfortable with each other yet. Plus, there’s so much at stake the first time. If the sex is bad, you could second-guess the budding relationship. These four rules will make it completely enjoyable.
Rule 1: Don’t jump the gun.
There’s no doubt been so much build up to this moment that you’re tempted to skip foreplay and launch right into the part where you insert the rod into the slot. But that’s a rookie mistake.
“Really, the first night with someone is when you should be taking your time” say sex educator Jamye Waxman, author of Getting Off. “Your goal should be to pay close attention to what works and what doesn’t for the other person. The way you can please them right from the start.”
So keep thing slow and steamy from the got-go. During foreplay, any time his hands start to wander too daringly or it seems like he’s going to try to go for the main event, grab his wrists and hold them tight. Then give him a long drawn-out kiss.
“Most men love it when a woman does something aggressive like this because it helps them understands what she wants.” Says Carole Altman, PhD, author of You can be your own sex therapist. “The back-and –forth between heavy petting and kissing will make sure thing stay well placed.”
Rule 2: Acknowledge awkward moments.Of cause we all want to be thought of as a goddess in the sack, so the instinct is to ignore any gawky moments and pray on the kama sutra that will much more smoothly if you do the opposite.
“Been with someone new is stressful enough because you’re worried about what he’ll think of your body and if he’ll like what you’re doing,” says Altman. “And if you don’t accept the natural mishaps that are bound to happen, they’ll silently taint the experience.”
To rescue the mood, you to acknowledge these slips subtly in a way that suits the kind of sex you are having. If you’re both been playful, maintain that attitude – meaning, if he can’t seems to get your bra unhooked, don’t sit there as he gets frustrated. Give him a smile and say “Let me try, I know the trick with this.” Or if the mood is more intense, find a way to keep that vibe intact. If you accidentally knock heads, turn your attention to that area by passionately kissing his forehead and face. If you acknowledge those awkward moments because they will happen, in a playful way, it can help ease the "new sex" tension in the air.
Rule 3: Say something nice:
Most men do care about pleasing their partner so just throw him a bone, even if he's messing it up find something to praise, that will build up confidence for the next time.
Rule 4: Hold back from crazy acrobatic:
Both of you are new to it, so those crazy tricks will be held for a later date. No need for tricks now, for the fact that he's new to your body is tricky enough.